Friday, August 9, 2013

Birthday Fun


Emme turned 2! I can't believe that it has been two years already. The best two years, we have loved every minute of it...laughs, smiles, books, songs, diapers, late nights, early mornings, feedings, most of all fun, fun, fun!


On our way to the Zoo


For Emme's birthday we went to the Zoo, one of Emme's favorite places. Then we went swimming at Grandma K's house with her cousins. She had a fun time, although a little overwhelmed at times. Around 4 she stopped acting like herself and was just calm and wanted to be held. She was a bit needy. We felt bad but couldn't put our finger on what was causing it until later. She broke out with a high fever and then sores in her mouth. We soon discovered she had "Hand, Foot, Mouth". Poor girl no way to spend your birthday. Luckily she had felt good most of the day!






She loves the tot-tub


Present Time

When you asked Emme what she wanted for her birthday she said, "cake".
Her aunt Jen found a "cake" for her. She has had hours of fun playing with it.

 
 
Cousins and Cake

Enjoying every bite



Emme's two year measurements

She is a tall, tall girl. Her doctor told us that if she continues growing at this rate she will pass us up in about 5th grade. I guess it is important to note that we are only 5' 4", but still pretty tall! She currently expects her to be between 5' 11' and 6' 2"!
Emme: 36.5 inches tall (she grew 3.5 inches from her 18 month appointment) & 30 pounds.

Emme's favorites during the last year...

Books. She loves reading them, having them read to her, or listening to them on the B-pad (AKA I-Pad)

Bikes. She loves her kick bike and riding with her friend Callie. She also loves riding in the trailer for longer bike rides with mom and dad.

BB. She loves her BB (Binky). Starting in July we started only letting her have it when she was sleeping. Sometimes she wants it so she goes and sits on her bed and sucks on it for a few minutes, puts it back and comes and plays.

Food. Emme is a great eater, and loves most anything. We wondered why it seemed like she was always eating. If you grow 3.5 inches in 6 months you would eat a lot too! The doctor said as long as it is good food let her eat. She loves, avocados, black beans, chicken, pork, carrots, bananas, apples, yogurt, cereal, and salsa. She will anything off mom's plate and nothing off of dads. She love to drink milk or water, but nothing else. He has had her try lemonade, juice, and a sips of his pop and she hates it! We think that is why she won't ever have a bite if Brandon gives it to and has stopped trying any thing that isn't milk or water. Guess that isn't so bad!

Elmo. Emme loved Elmo this past year. She knows it is at the end of Sesame Street. She can find the Netflix app on the BPad, find her show, and move the timing bar to the end so she can watch Elmo's World. Elmo has been a great friend when I want to get the dishes done or the some other cleaning.

Friends. Emme loves friends and kids. She will play with anyone and would prefer to be with others than by herself. We are grateful that in our new neighborhood there are lots of kids to play with. She loves playing with her cousins and is sad if we go to Grandma & Grandpa's house and the rest of the family isn't coming.

ABs: Emme loves to sing her ABCs, she calls them her ABs. She has mastered singing them and recently can identify most of her letters. It is so fun to see her learning and growing.

Here are some of her two year pictures that we had taken.
 








We love you sweet girl. You have been an answer to prayers. Can't imagine life without you. We pray for you everyday. We pray that your birth mommy will know we love her selfless act of love. She loves you too Emme K. Can't wait for another amazing year.




Saturday, August 3, 2013

Birth Mother

Every day I think about Kayla, in fact, every time I see Emme I am reminded that an amazing young lady made a very difficult choice. A choice that I am sure she still questions, a decision that I am forever grateful for. Kayla was an answer to our prayers and we are so blessed because we have Emme in our life. I live every day knowing that we were given the greatest gift, that of being parents. Something we couldn't do on our own. I cherish every moment I have with sweet little Emme, enjoying every awake moment with her. I never knew I could love the way I love Emme. I love that Emme has been blessed with a birth mom that loves her as much as we do. She is a lucky girl, so many people to love her.

It has been two years since we got the phone call from our case worker that we had been matched. It has been two years since we nervously walked into the agency to meet Kayla. I will never forget seeing this cute young lady walk in, she greeted us with a hug. We talked for a little bit and then then departed. We thought we had a few months before we were going to meet our little girl. We thought we would meet or talk with Kayla again before Emme was born.

We were wrong...it was just a week later that we got the call that her water had broke and she was headed to the hospital. So many emotions ran through my mind as we walked into the nursery to see a sweet little girl.

This picture from placement day sits in Emme's room. I love that she knows that Kayla has a special place in her life. I can't wait for the day when she truly understands how special her birth mom is. We love you Kayla.



Often birth mothers don't have the support that they need. Over the past couple of years I have become an avid reader of adoption blogs, both of birth mothers, adoptive families, and of adoptive kids. It has enlightened me and softened my heart. It has helped me understand a birth mothers perspective. I was pleased to find a lot of support groups.

Here is an upcoming event for birth mothers...

August 31, 2013
East River Front Park
10991 S. River Front Pkwy
South Jordan, UT 84095

More information can be found on the blog adoptionsharethelove.blogspot.com

Boating

Emme loves the water! We were so glad that we were able to make it to the lake for a day of boating! Emme loved going fast on the boat, cheering for those that were wake boarding or tubing. She didn't hesitate to jump onto the tub and go for a ride. She still talks about it. We are so glad that she isn't scared to try so many fun things.



Tracks


A few months ago moved to a house on the west side of the valley. Now have to go over train tracks when we go home. Since the very first time that we went to look at the house Emme would say "wee, wee"! There are three sets of tracks that we cross, so we would count them as we went over...always warning her of the last set of tracks. A short time later Emme started saying "one more".

Time passed and we started using Legacy or Redwood Road not going over the tracks much. However, this morning, we got a flat tire and had to drive to get it fixed. We went over the tracks...and Emme shouted from the back seat "Wee, wee...one more!" then she laughed and laughed. She has the best personality.

So glad that she can find happiness in the small things in life.